Is it ever ok to compare ourselves? (Even to teens?)
When you’re focused on a goal, pouring effort and energy into getting somewhere, it’s easy to feel… inadequate. To begin comparing yourself when things don’t come quick enough.
Like to a 16 year old on Tik Tok who has way less experience than you, yet talks to 1.7 million people per day, and can ‘print money’ by making a single post.
“Was I absent the day they handed out the income Miracle Grow lesson?” You might think.
And yet, you know something that teen doesn’t, {first_name}. Something that can ONLY be learned through the inexorable march of time. Years of hard-won lessons when all your chips were down.
Your kernel of wisdom, {first_name}, is that life is not a competition.
Validation, fame, riches… they’re not notches on the doorframe of meaning.
The WORK is the reward. The results are icing.
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And sometimes we want to shovel the icing in our mouth and have forgotten about the work.
So.
Align the work (if that be marketing, money making or mission related) with who you are, and what you love. That is at the top of your checklist. No point trying to be someone you are not. You’ll make an impact and income you love.
This came up in a session with my client this week, where her parents moved over to Australia 15 years ago to start a new business. Their marriage ended in divorce and split the $2.2 million of assets 50/50.
This is where it becomes interesting. . .
Her father poured his heart and soul into his business. He built his business around his inspiration and 15 years later has built a $6 million dollar business. Being himself paid.
Her mum wanted to be wealthy, has done little work to get there, followed others advice and has $100K left. She compares herself to him now and isn’t being herself (and her finances show that {first_name}).
Now, if you find yourself comparing, or flagging in your inspiration, or trying to ignore a tiny whisper saying, “who am I to do this? WANT this?”…
Think of all the things you’ve already achieved that have been meaningful to you. The tenacity, grit, inspiration, and love you’ve poured into yourself already to get here.
The more you honor you, the more the world will reflect that and honor you right back.
Remember, a little wisdom from Abraham Lincoln “I’m not bound to win, I’m bound to be true. I’m not bound to succeed, I’m bound to live up to the light within me”
Tanya ‘shining light on you’ x
Leadership Coach
Counsellor & Master Certified Demartini Method Facilitator
