When we look at fantasies and why we have them…
Comparison is often right at the centre.
The moment we start comparing our life or business to someone else’s, we begin injecting their values, their voids, and the way they do business into our life.
And that’s where it becomes a fantasy.
Because we’re comparing our internal chaos to their external order.
We look at them and think they have it all figured out.
Of course they have that level of order.
It’s aligned with their values.
It’s important to them.
But when we see it and think,
“If I just did that, business would flow for me,” we’ve already left ourselves.
Authenticity is what brings business to you.
Not copying what someone else is doing.
If you build success doing things that aren’t true for you, you won’t want to sustain it.
At some point, we have to ask…
Is the business I’m building aligned with me?
Or am I building what’s aligned for someone else?
With love and light,
Tanya Cross
Leadership Coach & The Coaches Coach
Master Certified Demartini Method Facilitator
BAppSoSc (Counselling)
