Some business owners save their money to go on a holiday…
$5k
$10k
$20k
$50k
To ESCAPE a life and a business they hate
Yet most wonโt invest in discovering who they are, adapting their business and creating a life that they donโt desire to escape.
Most wonโt invest in someone to help manage their stress and emotions even though as an entrepreneur or small business owner you statistically have a 1 in 3 chance of suffering from mental health challenges.
You know the ones…
Stress…
Anxiety…
Worry…
Depression…
Anger
Self-deprecating and critical thoughts…
That affects your ability to be effective in the business
The ones that then flow on disconnect your intimate relationship
๐๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ค๐ข๐๐ฌ…
Who you probably tell yourself is the reason why you are building this. To inspire them.
Yet you are a fucking stressed-out mess who couldnโt inspire a dehydrated Ethiopian child to drink fresh water.
You would probably scare them away.
So the solution to this is a holiday of course.
Like it always is.
Time away from the family.
Time away to relax.
But…
When you come back from dropping your $20k you already are dreaming of the next holiday…
You say things like…
โI need a holiday from my holidayโ
โI need another week to recoverโ
Like itโs exhaustion from your holiday.
But it isnโt…
๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ง๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐ค ๐จ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐
It sits whispering from the time you leave to the time you get back.
The proverbial fat elephant in your head
Itโs your lack of enthusiasm and the depression of coming back to life and business you are massively stressed about. Itโs the resistance to showing back up and into a world where nothing has changed.
The solution isnโt
- Another holiday
- Hiring more staff
- Downsizing your business
- Upsizing your business
- A business coach
- A coach to โscaleโ your business or make another 100k per month
- Delegating everything to everyone else
Although all of these May offer temporary relief, none give a guarantee that the patterns of thinking that got you here are BUSTED
๐๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฒ ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฒ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐๐๐ง ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ ๐๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ง.
And secretly, I know, and you know this has happened many times before..
So here is my guarantee.
The solution..
The truth..
It resides
In
Your
Head
.
Your mindset and emotional management strategies and tools are the Major key that most ignore.
While they admit that their thinking and emotions,
Dictate their decisions and actions.
They for some reason ignore this in business.
When their business is just a reflection of each one of these.
As if ignorance is a better option than permanently being able to overcome these mental challenges and resolving all the bullshit that comes along with them ๐คทโโโ
As if dropping
5k
10k
20k
50k
On a 2-week holiday (avoid and hope something changes strategy) is better….
If you are in business and sick of the pain, stress and frustration that comes with these patterns.
If you are ready to master your mindset and emotion to master your business and life.
If you are ready to be the inspiration for your kids and set the example for how to live a life that is both challenging, rewarding and fulfilling..
