Hidden cost of comparison
When we look at fantasies and why we have them… Comparison is often right at the centre. The moment we start comparing our life or business to someone else’s, we begin injecting their values, their voids, and the way they do business into our life. And that’s where it becomes a fantasy. […]
Stop Learning
One of the biggest traps most coaches get caught in… And it seems really counterintuitive is this: So many of us have a huge value on learning. We love the courses. The books. The trainings. The certifications. Anything that helps us grow in our expertise. But here’s […]
You Get Paid To Be You
There comes a point in your growth where you stop trying to be someone else. You no longer need to shape yourself around a version of success that does not reflect who you are. You stop asking, “Am I doing it right?” And instead start speaking and acting from a place of […]
Unlock the power that already lives in you
True authority comes from within you, and it bursts out of you. No one can take that away from you. When you are aligned and integrated, authority becomes effortless. You radiate magnetism and inspiration. You lead without forcing. You speak and people listen, not because you are trying to be […]
When things feel off track
You’ve been doing the work. You’ve served clients, shown up, and created results. But lately, it feels like things have slowed down. New leads aren’t coming in as easily, your inbox is nearly empty, and your phone stays silent. And there’s that thought: what shifted? You know you’re capable. You […]
Have You Ever Held Back From Celebrating?
There is something I see often in the coaches and founders I work with, and I have moved through it myself too. You make progress. You feel a sense of shift. You look around and realise you have come a long way. But the moment you go to celebrate, something pulls […]
A moment to check in
Maybe you have felt this too. You are on your personal or professional growth journey. You are doing the work. But instead of feeling momentum, it starts to feel flat. Like a plateau. That is what I call stagnant growth. It shows up when: You stop asking the […]
Is your fear of failure fuelled by your infatuation with success?
Sometimes your fear of failure isn’t just about failure. It’s tied to your infatuation with success. You hit a milestone in business, in life, and it feels incredible. You want that high again. You want to keep performing at that level. But underneath… there’s a quiet fear of not being […]
The session that made no sense… at first
Back in 2011 in the early stages of building my coaching business. I remember feeling stuck. So I invested in and booked a coaching session. For 90 minutes I sat there. It went over the allocated time, I was checking my watch wondering if it would ever end. As I […]
Your path to self‑actualisation starts here
Have you ever felt at the edge of a big transformation, you sense it but not sure what it will be? But you know it’s big. That moment, the crossroads of fear and courage, is where true self-actualisation and transformation begins. For years, I believed growth was about doing more, achieving more, […]
